“The Talk”

Can I ask you a question? Growing up did you receive “the talk”? If you did, I did too, but did you receive “the talk” about menstruation? If you did, lucky you! I did not. I received no guidance or information regarding my period. Everything I learned about my period I either learned through a friend, Google, or by experience. There are several things I wish I had been told about my period growing up. 

Background Story

December 25, 2007 – the day my period first started. I remember the moment exactly! It was mid-afternoon. I had to pee so I went to use the bathroom. When I wiped I saw blood. Once finished, I went straight to my mom and said there was blood on the tissue when I used the restroom. My mom said okay, and told me to let her know if there was still blood the next time I went. I continued on with my day. The next time I went to the bathroom I was still bleeding. I went back to my mom and told her there was still blood she said, “Okay, you started your period. Grab one of my pads out of the bathroom and put it on.” 

There was no further discussion, or education about my period. 

My Vagina Does What?

I believe every girl needs to sit down in front of a mirror and examine their vagina. Moreover, every female should know the anatomy (structure) and physiology (function) of their vagina.

Unfortunately, this was another thing that was not discussed with me. 

Understanding the anatomy and physiology of the female reproductive system will provide further clarification about what happens during a menstrual cycle. Plus, when girls have questions or start experiencing strange or abnormal symptoms, they can verbalize and describe their concerns appropriately. 

Furthermore, when talking about the female reproductive system, use proper medical terminology. Not only will introducing proper medical terminology instill confidence in a young girl regarding her body, but it also assist her with communicating any issues or concerns she may have.  

Power to The P Word

Growing up – it was taboo to discuss your menstrual cycle. Your period was like a top-secret spy mission with classified information. Unfortunately, things are still like that today.

Young girls and women should feel comfortable talking about their period. They should be able to ask any questions, or express any concerns they may have. Additionally, they should know the difference between a healthy and unhealthy period.  

Talk About Your Period

There were a lot of things that were not discussed with me growing up about my body. I do not write this blog post to criticize my upbringing. I was given the best that could be provided. However, what was provided to me allows me the opportunity to do better when the time comes for me to discuss menstruation with my future daughter. 

The moral of this post is that it is okay to talk about your period or your vagina. If you have questions, ask them. How are you to know if something is abnormal if you do not speak up? Always speak with a healthcare professional regarding any concerns. Furthermore, if you do speak up, be open and honest. No matter how nervous or unsure you might be.

All human life begins with a vagina. Women are amazing creatures. There should be no shame when it comes to anything regarding their bodies.  

Next time you use a public restroom, girl rip that pad open. No one cares. If you need a pad or tampon, ask that random girl if she has one you can use. I promise it is okay! I love each person reading this blog post, and I hope every female reading this has the confidence to embrace and discuss their vagina and/or period whenever it is necessary.